Archived: The Divorced/Divorcing/Children of Divorce Club Thread...
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Re: The Divorced/Divorcing/Children of Divorce Club Thread...
02/16/09 4:04 pm | #122
Its nice to see a thread like this where people can vent. Yeah, I too play my xbox as a way to escape the world. I have been trying to get my wife to come home now for almost 3 years. We have two beautiful boys, and they want to be home with their daddy, and I want them to be here, but she wont let it happen. I do get to see them alot, which I am thankful for that, but when they arent here, it gets almost unbearable. We arent divorced, just separated, but I cant seem to get through to her, and the loneliness is really, really starting to get to me. Anyone going through this has the stamina of a bull, otherwise you would be locked up in a padded room. I feel sorry for anyone having to deal with this, as I wouldnt wish a situation like we all have on my worst enemy.
Re: The Divorced/Divorcing/Children of Divorce Club Thread...
02/16/09 10:30 pm | #126
I'm not sure if this would be the best place to put this but this is a song that usually reaches out to the people i know that have gone through heartbreak/breakups and divorces in some cases. Circles try listening to this song, its helped me out a lot because i can really relate to it....
If this is not the right place to put this then again i apologize for posting something irrelevant on here.
If this is not the right place to put this then again i apologize for posting something irrelevant on here.
Re: The Divorced/Divorcing/Children of Divorce Club Thread...
02/17/09 4:14 am | #129
I wrote a song about my situation but no one has ever been able to write any music to it. If any one wants to check it out, go to my myspace page. It's in my blog section along with some other stuff that I wrote. MEhttp://www.myspace.com/bonedaddy83/ The song is called Full Circle. Hope that you enjoy it. Maybe it'll help someone out someday.
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02/17/09 4:36 pm | #130
Quote by Epic Lou:
Quote by Riff Moonraker:
Its nice to see a thread like this where people can vent. Yeah, I too play my xbox as a way to escape the world. I have been trying to get my wife to come home now for almost 3 years. We have two beautiful boys, and they want to be home with their daddy, and I want them to be here, but she wont let it happen. I do get to see them alot, which I am thankful for that, but when they arent here, it gets almost unbearable. We arent divorced, just separated, but I cant seem to get through to her, and the loneliness is really, really starting to get to me. Anyone going through this has the stamina of a bull, otherwise you would be locked up in a padded room. I feel sorry for anyone having to deal with this, as I wouldnt wish a situation like we all have on my worst enemy.
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02/18/09 1:18 am | #132
Quote by PSORaine:
Quote by Minioger:
Agree! Does that make me a girl?
Nah, you're ok. You're just a good guy.
What, are you saying Im a bad guy
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02/18/09 1:19 am | #133
Quote by PSORaine:
Quote by Riff Moonraker:
Yeah, same here. When I take them back to her after the weekend, they hang on to me, and cry, and dont want to go back. When I pick them up from her, they wave bye to her and jump in my car. They tell me they want to come home, and I dont have an answer for them, and it kills me. I dont WANT to take them back to her, and yet I have to... it steals a piece of my soul every single time. You're right. Being alone is hell. I am sick and tired of going to bed at night, staring at the ceiling in the dark until I drift away. Once you have slept with someone for over 13 years, and then you have nothing but an empty bed, your entire view on the world changes.
I don't understand... WHY do you have to? If she hasn't divorced you, then she doesn't have any more custody rights than you do.
Well when my mom and dad got separated, my mom had full custody of me, I dunno if that's the same case for him but it happened with me.
Re: The Divorced/Divorcing/Children of Divorce Club Thread...
02/18/09 3:45 am | #135
It's really nice to hear you guys around here genuinely care about your kids after your divorces/separations. It sounds like it means a lot to them that you are still in their lives as much as you can be. When my parent's got divorced my mom was given custody. Every weekend when my siblings and I went to my dads house it seemed like he never wanted us around. It kinda gave me a negative view about dads in general but you guys are definitely changing the way I feel about it.