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02/15/09 4:50 pm | #108
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Everyone says I'm the nicest guy and how sweet I am. I say fuck that. It's not getting me no where. I'm tired of women taking advantage of me. From now on, I'm going to meet a girl and hit it and quit it.
Sounds like your "we're just friends guy", I feel you tho, i went through that like 9th&10th Grade.
U can hit it and quit if u like, but word gets around lol watch out for that.
Do what u gotta tho
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02/15/09 5:03 pm | #110
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I don't give a damn dude. Like I always say, people can talk behind my back, that's cool, but I know they won't say it in my face. I'm not trying to be all bad, but I grew up in Jersey and you learn how to take care of yourself. I used to always think that dudes were assholes for just sleeping with a girl and than leaving them. I thought to myself, I could never do that and I never have. I'm just realizing maybe it isn't so bad. No offense to the women here, I get along with everyone here, but women do just as much bad stuff as men. I've gotten played so many times. I'm just tired of it. It's the shittiest feeling in the world. I just want her to go through what I went through.
Ha, I feel you. Just don't turn into a dick, there is a way to not get played and then there is jus straight up bein a dick and u sound like you are a good dude so don't lose that in the name of "getting even".
But do what you gotta do, and sometime gettin in and gettin out is the best thing ever.
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02/15/09 6:46 pm | #112
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False.
How so? And Keep in mind i mean when neither person is wrapped up or looking for commitment.
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02/15/09 7:06 pm | #113
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How so? And Keep in mind i mean when neither person is wrapped up or looking for commitment.
it would appear the quotes havent fixed themselves.....
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02/15/09 7:31 pm | #115
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it would appear the quotes havent fixed themselves.....
Nah, prophesizer quoted me, but deleted lous and left his name in the quotes, if that makes sense. I can't think of the right terms. It was user error
Anyway @ Proph- you said the best thing ever. I'm saying it might be nice if that's all you're looking for and it's all the other person is looking for, but best thing ever is best thing EVER, and that would be being with "the ONE." There's no feeling that compares to that, and it makes everything else feel shallow and fake.
That said, some people live their whole lives without feeling that, and it's sad but there are more important things in life than sex.
I know I'm a girl, and that's a girly POV, so I'll add another. You may think a string of women with no attachments doesn't hurt anyone now, but when you FIND that woman that means more... she may be hurt by your past. I know it's not a popular view, but even though women may not TELL you your past hurts them (because why should it, right? you can't change it, and it's not like you knew her then) often it DOES hurt her, and it can seriously damage your relationship without you even knowing it.
Life isn't, and shouldn't be, a quest for a higher number. If you aren't in a relationship, why have sex at all?
But... I'm very much a girl.
Yeah I wasnt expecting EVER to be taken so literally lol.I see where you are coming from though, and you have 10years on me so you've prolly seen some things i haven't.
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02/15/09 11:36 pm | #117
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Quote by Taco:
it would appear the quotes havent fixed themselves.....
Nah, prophesizer quoted me, but deleted lous and left his name in the quotes, if that makes sense. I can't think of the right terms. It was user error
Anyway @ Proph- you said the best thing ever. I'm saying it might be nice if that's all you're looking for and it's all the other person is looking for, but best thing ever is best thing EVER, and that would be being with "the ONE." There's no feeling that compares to that, and it makes everything else feel shallow and fake.
That said, some people live their whole lives without feeling that, and it's sad but there are more important things in life than sex.
I know I'm a girl, and that's a girly POV, so I'll add another. You may think a string of women with no attachments doesn't hurt anyone now, but when you FIND that woman that means more... she may be hurt by your past. I know it's not a popular view, but even though women may not TELL you your past hurts them (because why should it, right? you can't change it, and it's not like you knew her then) often it DOES hurt her, and it can seriously damage your relationship without you even knowing it.
Life isn't, and shouldn't be, a quest for a higher number. If you aren't in a relationship, why have sex at all?
But... I'm very much a girl.
Damn straight, baseball ftw!
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02/16/09 2:12 pm | #118
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So my story is almost unbelievable but trust me, it's all true. I got married on Halloween 2002. My wife ended up leaving me Jan. 6th 2003.... two days before my birthday!! Almost a week later she tells me that she is now dating a chick! My wife left me for another woman 2 days before my b-day!!!! Talk about a kick in the head!!! Needless to say, I lost my mind and did some really crazy stuff. I tried to kill myself because I thought that my life was over. I got hooked on heroin and cocaine. Extremely dumb on my part! I should've used my brain and just moved on. Oh well. That's my story. Hope that you enjoy.
Oh sure, she leaves you BEFORE your birthday, and that's bad. If she would have been like "Happy, birthday, I want us to experiment with this chick together" That would have been the BEST present ever.
Pffft- men.
If you don't mind me asking, did you guys date a long time before you were married? Your reaction to her leaving seems extreme for a 3 month marriage...
We were together for about 4 years. She was my life and I worshipped the ground she spit on. It may have been a ridiculous way to react but I was in love and then learned what heartache tastes like. Oh well, I have moved well beyond her and her pathetic lies and shit..... Niw I gots myself a good woman. Her and I take care of each-other. She is also the one who is the mother of my child.
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02/16/09 2:28 pm | #119
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Quote by PSORaine:
Quote by Taco:
it would appear the quotes havent fixed themselves.....
Nah, prophesizer quoted me, but deleted lous and left his name in the quotes, if that makes sense. I can't think of the right terms. It was user error
Anyway @ Proph- you said the best thing ever. I'm saying it might be nice if that's all you're looking for and it's all the other person is looking for, but best thing ever is best thing EVER, and that would be being with "the ONE." There's no feeling that compares to that, and it makes everything else feel shallow and fake.
That said, some people live their whole lives without feeling that, and it's sad but there are more important things in life than sex.
I know I'm a girl, and that's a girly POV, so I'll add another. You may think a string of women with no attachments doesn't hurt anyone now, but when you FIND that woman that means more... she may be hurt by your past. I know it's not a popular view, but even though women may not TELL you your past hurts them (because why should it, right? you can't change it, and it's not like you knew her then) often it DOES hurt her, and it can seriously damage your relationship without you even knowing it.
Life isn't, and shouldn't be, a quest for a higher number. If you aren't in a relationship, why have sex at all?
But... I'm very much a girl.
Agree! Does that make me a girl?
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02/16/09 2:34 pm | #120
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Bonedaddy, I'm sorry, but your story got me hard...
