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01/26/16 7:18 pm | #181
Quote by Mo the Surfer:
Quote by Kat:
She kept asking if she talks like that at home. Not at my home!!!
I hope for your sake the mediator you had to deal with is smarter than the zipper head who handled my custody mediation. I have very little faith in any government service people in the family court system here in California.
was yours court appointed? I swear, court appointed mediators are just the WORST PEOPLE. They develop a preference for people and aren't willing to change their minds. This one is private, and she seems ok. I'm hopeful that she will see which of us just wants what is best for the child.
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: In lieu of Lou -- DAMMIT KAT!!
01/26/16 8:20 pm | #182
Quote by Kat:
Quote by Mo the Surfer:
I hope for your sake the mediator you had to deal with is smarter than the zipper head who handled my custody mediation. I have very little faith in any government service people in the family court system here in California.
was yours court appointed? I swear, court appointed mediators are just the WORST PEOPLE. They develop a preference for people and aren't willing to change their minds. This one is private, and she seems ok. I'm hopeful that she will see which of us just wants what is best for the child.
A lot of what happened to me was my fault - I thought she would be fair. Oh, how wrong thou art.....
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01/27/16 2:42 am | #183
Quote by Mo the Surfer:
Quote by Kat:
was yours court appointed? I swear, court appointed mediators are just the WORST PEOPLE. They develop a preference for people and aren't willing to change their minds. This one is private, and she seems ok. I'm hopeful that she will see which of us just wants what is best for the child.
A lot of what happened to me was my fault - I thought she would be fair. Oh, how wrong thou art.....
100% feel you on that! It's incomprehensible how someone can treat their child like no more than a bargaining chip, blank check and lifetime way to control someone you don't like anymore. I mean... They turn 18 and you're not in control anymore, but they still have 70+ years to navigate the world! You owe it to them to teach them, guide them, and not stunt them along the way. π
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01/27/16 6:08 pm | #184
Quote by Kat:
Quote by Mo the Surfer:
A lot of what happened to me was my fault - I thought she would be fair. Oh, how wrong thou art.....
100% feel you on that! It's incomprehensible how someone can treat their child like no more than a bargaining chip, blank check and lifetime way to control someone you don't like anymore. I mean... They turn 18 and you're not in control anymore, but they still have 70+ years to navigate the world! You owe it to them to teach them, guide them, and not stunt them along the way. π
Oh, then there is the mediator - she ignored anything I offered in evidence and took every lie the ex gave up as gospel truth. I thought she would also be fair - NOT! So I got double screwed and that's why I went off the deep end for a while.
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01/27/16 6:29 pm | #185
Quote by Mo the Surfer:
Quote by Kat:
100% feel you on that! It's incomprehensible how someone can treat their child like no more than a bargaining chip, blank check and lifetime way to control someone you don't like anymore. I mean... They turn 18 and you're not in control anymore, but they still have 70+ years to navigate the world! You owe it to them to teach them, guide them, and not stunt them along the way. π
Oh, then there is the mediator - she ignored anything I offered in evidence and took every lie the ex gave up as gospel truth. I thought she would also be fair - NOT! So I got double screwed and that's why I went off the deep end for a while.
Yeah I had a mediator like that. He point blank told my mom there was nothing anyone could say to make him advocate for me. Umm. Ok guy.
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01/27/16 9:33 pm | #186
Quote by Kat:
Quote by Mo the Surfer:
Oh, then there is the mediator - she ignored anything I offered in evidence and took every lie the ex gave up as gospel truth. I thought she would also be fair - NOT! So I got double screwed and that's why I went off the deep end for a while.
Yeah I had a mediator like that. He point blank told my mom there was nothing anyone could say to make him advocate for me. Umm. Ok guy.
Yup - so much for neutrality... and there is no recourse against them except to wait the appropriate 90 days and start again and hope you get someone that can be neutral.
Re: In lieu of Lou -- DAMMIT KAT!!
06/16/16 5:57 pm | #187
The King Monk3y can't get his account to work properly -- DAMNIT KAT!!!!
Re: In lieu of Lou -- DAMMIT KAT!!
06/18/16 10:56 pm | #188
I have no way to catch up on all the Game of Thrones I've missed.
DAMMIT KAT
Re: In lieu of Lou -- DAMMIT KAT!!
05/10/17 10:27 am | #189
It appears the notifications aren't working anymore... (Just like Xandler said in Random Threads...)
DAMMIT KAT
Re: In lieu of Lou -- DAMMIT KAT!!
05/11/17 11:18 am | #190
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO reason for my posting this other than DAMNIT KAT
Re: In lieu of Lou -- DAMMIT KAT!!
07/26/17 8:45 pm | #191
My laptop died last night and I had to buy a new one today
DAMMIT KAT!!!!!!
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07/26/17 8:55 pm | #192
My signiture is no longer available and i need to make a new one. DAMNIT KAT
Re: In lieu of Lou -- DAMMIT KAT!!
07/26/17 11:39 pm | #193
I almost had a 1 year login streak but lost it at day 344. DAMMIT KAT TO HELL
Re: In lieu of Lou -- DAMMIT KAT!!
07/27/17 11:31 am | #194
Kat, that's really rude, you should reconsider in the future
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07/27/17 11:47 am | #195
Quote by Meta:
I almost had a 1 year login streak but lost it at day 344. DAMMIT KAT TO HELL
Way to fail, it's obviously all Kat's fault though, DAMNIT KAT!
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