What I'll be discussing is a strange but real issue I deal with on a weekly basis. I'm 33 years old, I love video games, I have a good paying job, and I enjoy life. But my issue I deal with is the stigma of girls who wont date me because I'm too thin. Unfortunately my ex girlfriend broke up with me because she felt I wasn't enough. But what is enough? Because I'm thin girls tend to either think I'm gay or not manly enough. Why is it okay for girls to judge me yet if I do I'm considered a "bad person". Also I constantly get told that I need more confidence. But the TRUTH is, I have more than enough. So why is it so hard for girls to respect me? Is it tradition? I wasn't raised to be this manly type guy. I am manly, but I'm not to girls.
So many girls that I meet tell me that the guy has to be taller, bigger, stronger. And that's that. Even though I was born in the states, my parents were not & raised me with outside thinking. So to me Americans seem over weight. Or I've noticed the older people get, they gain weight. As for me the older I get I stay the same weight. I've also been told that being fatter is like better, like a status in society. I've even had older women ask me what my secret is for being thin, and it hurts my feelings. I have no secret, I'm just thin.
Tell me why is it wrong to be 33 and have my mother live with me? I pay all the bills, I don't know how to drive, I love video games, I work hard, customers at my job like me. So what then?
I don't believe that people are born evil. I think it's dumb people influencing stupid people that do stupid things. If you don't like to be treated in a bad way then why do it to me or anyone? I wasn't raised to judge people so don't do it to me. I do judge those who hurt, rape, murder, steal, etc. I don't need to be a president, a leader, or god to want to live in a perfect world.
How much money do you really need? Why do you need to have kids? Why put on make-up? Why workout? If you're already perfect the way you are, why do more? When is enough enough? It's like people are doing the motions but aren't in control.
Why do I believe we can live in a perfect world but no one else can? What other world is there? Survival of the fittest? Why would we want some to survive and not others?
People tell me it's technology's fault. I disagree. I believe it's the human that can't control themselves. No one wants to be told to change, I get that. But humans evolve with change.
Tell me your traditions. Tell me why you need more than 3 meals a day?, why you need so much money?, why you need to look cool, sexy, etc. When is enough...enough?
Thank you for your time.
So many girls that I meet tell me that the guy has to be taller, bigger, stronger. And that's that. Even though I was born in the states, my parents were not & raised me with outside thinking. So to me Americans seem over weight. Or I've noticed the older people get, they gain weight. As for me the older I get I stay the same weight. I've also been told that being fatter is like better, like a status in society. I've even had older women ask me what my secret is for being thin, and it hurts my feelings. I have no secret, I'm just thin.
Tell me why is it wrong to be 33 and have my mother live with me? I pay all the bills, I don't know how to drive, I love video games, I work hard, customers at my job like me. So what then?
I don't believe that people are born evil. I think it's dumb people influencing stupid people that do stupid things. If you don't like to be treated in a bad way then why do it to me or anyone? I wasn't raised to judge people so don't do it to me. I do judge those who hurt, rape, murder, steal, etc. I don't need to be a president, a leader, or god to want to live in a perfect world.
How much money do you really need? Why do you need to have kids? Why put on make-up? Why workout? If you're already perfect the way you are, why do more? When is enough enough? It's like people are doing the motions but aren't in control.
Why do I believe we can live in a perfect world but no one else can? What other world is there? Survival of the fittest? Why would we want some to survive and not others?
People tell me it's technology's fault. I disagree. I believe it's the human that can't control themselves. No one wants to be told to change, I get that. But humans evolve with change.
Tell me your traditions. Tell me why you need more than 3 meals a day?, why you need so much money?, why you need to look cool, sexy, etc. When is enough...enough?
Thank you for your time.
