Quote by PSORaine:
Pretty much...
At least Santa Claus has a use... and a job... and gives to others... and some level of intelligence...
The point is, if your kid doesn't know that you can't shoot people in real life and have them respawn, then on some level you HAVE failed.
I don't want my son to lose all his innocence, but to some degree I've changed my position on this. I used to think it was just plain WRONG to let anyone under 17 play M games (no, I really did think this, I think I posted about it a while ago). But the older my little boy gets, I think... it's my job to teach him that entertainment entertains, but real life is real.
If you don't want your kid to play those games because of the gore, because they might have nightmares, because you want them to be your little kid just a little longer, that's one thing. That's fine. That's parenting.
But if you don't teach your children right and wrong, real and imaginary, and the common sense to not tape a plastic bag over someone's head and then shoot his knee caps... Well you're not a good parent.
Because in the end, your kid is GOING to see this stuff. It's a right of passage. All kids have sleepovers at the house of the kid who can watch Friday the 13th and play Halo. And once it's in an uncontrolled environment, when your kid feels they can't talk to you if they need to, you've lost the ability to guide your child.
I guess it's seeing my son get older- he's 6 now so it's not like he's what I'd considered an older child at all but still... seeing what scares him and what doesn't, what he can handle and what he can't. He can play gears just fine (better than some adults I've seen), but prey scares him so it can't be played around him. He watches Dead Space, and follows the story, but the movie Gremlins scared him so much he couldn't go to the bathroom alone for weeks. It's knowing your child that's important. It's being an involved parent, not following some abstract rating system created by people who don't even play games themselves.
So part of my job as a mom who is a gamer is to judge each game individually based on what is specifically in the game, and what my son can handle. It's just sad that so many parents rely on other people to tell them what their kids should be doing.
Gremlins still scare me.
The only real problem I have with my son playing M rated games is the language. He hears enough of that from his mom
We play Halo 3 & COD 4 together and he likes watching me play Timeshift (except when someone gets dismembered).
They did do a study, to which I can't find the link right now, that basically said video games can only bring out violent tendencies in those who already have those tendencies. So unless you already are a nutball, video games won't make you crazy. Too bad they don't post those studies on the top of major websites, it means parents would have to admit its their fault their kids are screwed up
Waaaah the video games made my son act out even though I'm never there for him except for when I beat him every other day.....waaaaah I blame Halo!!!!!!!!!