Archived: Slap?
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Re: Slap?
10/30/09 6:50 am | #17
I am against male on female violence, provoed or unprovoked. (Weapons are different and if a man or woman comes at me with a weapon, the sex of the attacker is no longer an issue.) I think that if you are in a situation where an attack,(slapping, kicking, punching, etc.) is going to be relentless, you should have a right to defend yourself. A slap to the face is not a relentless attack, and therefore this guy should have been man enough to walk away. I don't know many adults that cannot take a slap to the face.
I never want to strike a woman, EVER. I will however subdue a female if she will not relent her attack on me. I'm not going to say there aren't women that are stronger than me, but the vast majority are not. there is no reason that I would have to beat a woman down like she's some trucker in a bar brawl.
I never want to strike a woman, EVER. I will however subdue a female if she will not relent her attack on me. I'm not going to say there aren't women that are stronger than me, but the vast majority are not. there is no reason that I would have to beat a woman down like she's some trucker in a bar brawl.
Re: Slap?
10/30/09 11:06 am | #18
That video is from a game show where people have to put up with being bullied, its in the description. So the dude was out of line unless the point of the game is to put a bully in their place.
But any chick that tries to hit me, if its more than once, her ass is going to the ground. I'm not talking about a one hit KO punch, I'm just talking about a simple leg sweep or somethin' another. I'll take the first one from her, but any more or any cheap shots and she can expect to be lying on the ground.
Women want equality, then prove you deserve it. Stop using that "I'm a girl, I'll hit you but you can't do shit" talk and anything else y'all can do or get just because of the ovaries.
But any chick that tries to hit me, if its more than once, her ass is going to the ground. I'm not talking about a one hit KO punch, I'm just talking about a simple leg sweep or somethin' another. I'll take the first one from her, but any more or any cheap shots and she can expect to be lying on the ground.
Women want equality, then prove you deserve it. Stop using that "I'm a girl, I'll hit you but you can't do shit" talk and anything else y'all can do or get just because of the ovaries.
Re: Re: Slap?
10/30/09 11:18 am | #19
Quote by Mike93:
Women want equality, then prove you deserve it. Stop using that "I'm a girl, I'll hit you but you can't do shit" talk and anything else y'all can do or get just because of the ovaries.
I second that I got hit in the balls yesterday because some chick thought it was funny I didn't hit or yell at I just didn't talk to her punk-ass
*edit* watched the vid and didn't read any posts but Mike's. The guy knew what he was getting into so he shouldn't have hit her but as Gilgamesh says....
Re: Slap?
10/30/09 12:02 pm | #20
Stupid video, the guy is a total pussy anyway as he starts crying when he gets jumped. I don't agree with just knocking her down or any such crap. Yes I know and have encountered many woman that have done their best to push my buttons, but I got two legs and can just walk away. If a girl is that pissed off and all up in your shit then they want to yell at you and throw a fit. Just walking away ( in some cases running and maybe dodging thrown objects ) pisses them off more than anything else you could do to them as they didn't get to finish the fight. So you got kicked in the nuts, big deal. I actually got stabbed in the arm once from a drunk and very pissed off girlfriend....(we broke up as I walked away) Crazy Bitch!!!
Re: Re: Re: Slap?
10/30/09 12:43 pm | #21
Quote by D3ADLYKILL3R:
Quote by Lady Evol:
I don't think a man should EVER hit a woman. Men should be men, and that means never raising a hand to a woman NO MATTER WHAT.
That said, women shouldn't push it, or hit men because they feel like they can get away with it since "men can't hit back."
So any man who would hit a woman, even in response to being hit isn't a man, and any woman who would hit a man should have assault charges filed against her, the same as if she was a man.
That said, women shouldn't push it, or hit men because they feel like they can get away with it since "men can't hit back."
So any man who would hit a woman, even in response to being hit isn't a man, and any woman who would hit a man should have assault charges filed against her, the same as if she was a man.
idk if a woman was coming at me with a weapon that could injure me, then i do think hitting a woman would be justified, so its not as simple as saying that a man should never hit a woman under any circumstances.
yes i am probably setting myself up for a flame fest, but that's how i feel about it
In this situation it is the mans job to disarm the attacking woman. After you have disarmed her she will no doubt be furious still so it's best to retreat.
Re: Re: Slap?
10/30/09 12:56 pm | #23
Quote by TK Chillin:
Stupid video, the guy is a total pussy anyway as he starts crying when he gets jumped. I don't agree with just knocking her down or any such crap. Yes I know and have encountered many woman that have done their best to push my buttons, but I got two legs and can just walk away. If a girl is that pissed off and all up in your shit then they want to yell at you and throw a fit. Just walking away ( in some cases running and maybe dodging thrown objects ) pisses them off more than anything else you could do to them as they didn't get to finish the fight. So you got kicked in the nuts, big deal. I actually got stabbed in the arm once from a drunk and very pissed off girlfriend....(we broke up as I walked away) Crazy Bitch!!!
We should start a club TK, dudes who have been stabbed by crazy chicks and walked away
Anyhow, I don't know the whole premise of the show, but I really didn't find anything amusing. Obviously the culture in India is different than that of America and based on the reaction I assume that it is never okay to hit a woman in their culture regardless of the circumstance. I would agree with that statement.... with a few exceptions obviously.
I am obviously not a small guy and most women would have a hard time overpowering me, so I have walked away from being hit, slapped, kicked in the balls, stabbed and even spit in the face by a woman (mainly one crazy one ) I have however retaliated at one point. I was decked in the jaw and my only exit from the room was blocked, I told her to stop, asked politely to leave and was decked again. After that time I stated that I needed to leave and if I was punched again I would retaliate.....and as I finished I got decked again and then let go of a simple slap to the face, of course which I never heard the end of.
I was brought up not to hit women ever, but we live in a society where women want to be treated equally and then don't want to be treated equally when it comes to aggression and violence. I'm not saying its okay to hit someone back if they are a guy either, but why is it that people think that way?
Of course the last thing I have to say is if dude was on a game show about being bullied, he should have had some more balls to deal with stuff like that. She would have had to do a lot more than that to get me to retaliate, even in words...lol
Edit: I went into this thread expecting the joke from the Rick James skit on Chappelle's Show: "What did the five fingers say to the face?? SLAP!!"
Re: Re: Re: Slap?
10/30/09 3:24 pm | #24
Quote by Minioger:
Edit: I went into this thread expecting the joke from the Rick James skit on Chappelle's Show: "What did the five fingers say to the face?? SLAP!!"
lol i thought the same thing.
well im a lover not a fighter so if a girl or guy tried to beat me up,
im not fast but ill be out of there im guess im a runner not a fighter.
Re: Slap?
10/30/09 4:02 pm | #25
i've never hit a woman, but i would if i had to.
for example:
if a woman was going after my kids, she'd be going down.
if a woman repeatedly hit me and refused to stop, she'd be going down.
and obviously, if there was a weapon involved.
not saying i'd beat the shit out of them, but they'd go down lol.
and i agree with the equality thing. if you want it, act like it.
i may not hit women but some bitches sure deserve it.
for example:
if a woman was going after my kids, she'd be going down.
if a woman repeatedly hit me and refused to stop, she'd be going down.
and obviously, if there was a weapon involved.
not saying i'd beat the shit out of them, but they'd go down lol.
and i agree with the equality thing. if you want it, act like it.
i may not hit women but some bitches sure deserve it.
Re: Slap?
10/30/09 4:39 pm | #26
never stabbed physically by a woman only mentally but anyways ive had bigger women try to take advantage of me (BIG WOMEN) grabing me up and such I just run away from them or in some cases ask a teacher to help me. I dont lay my hand on a woman in violence only in love. He shouldnt have hit her though because he knew what was going to happen. I used to have to check myself when when anyone not just woman jumped at me cuz Id go into defensive mode and get ready to retaliate cuz of my surrounding area I always had to be on guard. I dont do things to females for them to flip out on me but back in the day at least guys would try and test me cuz I was light skin and I was better lookin than them and my hair wasnt nappy but really curly and my eyes were green so I got spit on stabbed by different people that shit was in elementary school so Id be the 1 always suspended or in PEAK but the ladies did love me
Re: Slap?
10/31/09 1:11 am | #27
I was hoping for someone to bring up the point of a woman demanding equality. Thank you.
Anyway, I live by that cheesy golden rule ... you know, "treat others the way you want to be treated." I'd like people to be as kind to me as I am to them. If I'm some total bitch then I can't expect to be treated kindly in return. Whether it may be emotionally or physically related.
PS: why can she slap!?
lol! I'm just amused by people's stupidity. Sorry!
Anyway, I live by that cheesy golden rule ... you know, "treat others the way you want to be treated." I'd like people to be as kind to me as I am to them. If I'm some total bitch then I can't expect to be treated kindly in return. Whether it may be emotionally or physically related.
PS: why can she slap!?
lol! I'm just amused by people's stupidity. Sorry!
Re: Slap?
10/31/09 3:02 pm | #28
Even though hitting a girl in any way is wrong, that was pretty damn funny!
Re: Slap?
10/31/09 3:23 pm | #29
Hmm, not entirely sure that was a dude, it had some kind of amusing suspenders on though. I sometimes like being slapped like that, it makes you feel alive.