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Re: why does my girl hate my 360

03/23/10 11:13 am | #16

maybe you need a new girlfriend

i cant see myself giving up one of my favorite things for any man. if you dont like the fact that i like video games, i dont think we are right for each other.

im not going to change for anybody thats not wiling to change for me. being in a relationship means being equals halfs to make one whole. i dont see relationships working when the partners disagree on things that matter to one or many of the partners.

there are few things that matter to me in a relationship, im going to find someone that share those few things with me.

there are girl gamers out there! maybe you just need find one of the few rare oddities!

Re: Re: Re: why does my girl hate my 360

03/23/10 11:28 am | #17

Quote by Kent K25:

My wife and I have a good understanding... No loss for me, and I've got a happy wife.

Don't Forget most of us that have wives, gave that commitment When we said: I DO!

You have a girlfriend, hence a sorta of trial wife. Until you find the right one, keep looking, if your not happy move on, or if she is the one then you have to commit to her. Again - It takes 2

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Re: why does my girl hate my 360

03/23/10 1:53 pm | #21

yea me and my gf both love video games, but its all about managing your time. There's a time to play video games and a time to spend with each other.

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03/23/10 4:00 pm | #23

Quote by Melissa Evol:

LOL I don't think AJ has posted in here yet so I'm pretty sure that makes me the first female to give an opinion.

LOLigags.

oh and well said.

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03/23/10 4:16 pm | #25

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Quote by Nick:

LOLigags.

If I ever turn up missing or murdered, it's your responsibility to make sure aj is brought to justice, lol.

*Loads gun now*

Re: why does my girl hate my 360

03/23/10 4:33 pm | #26

I love you guys.

Re: why does my girl hate my 360

03/23/10 4:58 pm | #27

I get made fun of for games like Mass Effect 2, she picks up the case and mockingly reads the back but its not a problem. I can deal with the sass for some xbox time.

Re: why does my girl hate my 360

03/23/10 4:59 pm | #28

Reading most of the replies above..
And being a girl..
I say that either find balance between time with the xbox and her (as I don't exactly know how you treat her, and do you spend time with her, etc. It might be purely your fault)
If the case is that you spend all the time she wants with her, and only game when she has some kind of plans, or late at night (i.e when she isn't bored to death at home while you're playing), but she just hates your habit as a whole. cause she thinks its "uncool", then do you really want a girlfriend, who can't like you for who you are and wants you changed due to some "coolness" standards?
Believe me, I know what I'm talking about, even being a gamer chick myself, my bf is really into playing multiplayer with his friends on PC and he feels way too horrible, as if he let them down, when he has to say "No, I have plans", even if he himself is okay with not playing. Guess what lol, it took over a year to work out and get it in his head, that not saying yes to every gaming whim of his friends every day isn't a let down, and it's not like refusing them first aid. lol
So either have a talk with her about compromising (as I"m sure there are things she likes, that you might despite) and discuss situations, in which you can play your games, and she can go watch Twilight with her girlfriends (just as an example)
And if she is completely deaf to the voice of reason, ask yourself if that's something you want in your life partner lol.

Re: Re: why does my girl hate my 360

03/23/10 5:35 pm | #29

Quote by Melissa Evol:

...Think of it this way- gaming is your hobby, the way some guys golf, or go to pool halls or watch sports. Yes, hobbies need to be balanced with time spent with your significant other, but you can't give up what you love or change who you are just to make someone else happy...

If you do, you'll just end up resenting her for it or worse you'll hate yourself.

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